When people make decisions what is it based on? Emotions? Logic? Some people just make rash decisions based on how mad they are that moment. Some people think out what they are doing and stop themselves from making choices that will effect the rest of there life. How people make decisions really can effect how there life will be or is. Sitting down and thinking about what you are about to do can help at times. On that same note being able to make the right decision while mad or really happy can be helpful too.
Although there are many examples I can choose the first I will use is gambling. This is something many people can get carried away with. Some people while gambling make decisions base on how happy they get when they win or how mad they get when they lose. The better gamblers think it out for example "man I just lost $100 dollars I should slow down how much money I am putting down and not over spend". Where the non thinkers "Man I just lost $100 but it is so fun if I bet again I should win".
This example could go either way. The thinker could save himself a lot of money just by walking away. Now the non thinker could lose a lot of money but staying. The other two things that could happen would be one the non thinker or the person acting on emotions could risk his money and win BIG. When last the thinker could walk away when his next hand or next use of a slot machine could have made him a lot of money. Next time you make a choice remember don't always act on emotion but don't be afraid to take a risk.
Friday, May 25, 2012
Thursday, May 17, 2012
Why Can't We Be Friends
There are many reasons people need love and affection. The first reason being, everyone needs someone to tell thier problems to. They also would never know if what you are doing is wrong with out people saying that it is wrong. Everyone needs someone to talk to you could never go though life with out someone. Just having one person to talk to can help in times when you have problems. You also might need someone for some tasks in life.
The second reason is to teach each other things. In life people learn from other people's mistakes. For example If I see my mom or someone I live with do something like go and cook dinner. If they do not preheat the oven the dinner may not come out right but if it does work and saves time. I can learn what to do from them testing it. When I cook dinner next I will know what will work and what wont.
The last reason being to learn who you are you have to see what other people do to make choices. For example if someone smokes just by seeing a person smoke and depending on who they are most people will decided if they like smoking or not. People think to themselfs if they are going to be that type of person or not just by seeing other people doing it. Most things you do are based on things other people do so next time you do something like the way you study think about why you do and it will most likely be because of other people doing it that way first.
The second reason is to teach each other things. In life people learn from other people's mistakes. For example If I see my mom or someone I live with do something like go and cook dinner. If they do not preheat the oven the dinner may not come out right but if it does work and saves time. I can learn what to do from them testing it. When I cook dinner next I will know what will work and what wont.
The last reason being to learn who you are you have to see what other people do to make choices. For example if someone smokes just by seeing a person smoke and depending on who they are most people will decided if they like smoking or not. People think to themselfs if they are going to be that type of person or not just by seeing other people doing it. Most things you do are based on things other people do so next time you do something like the way you study think about why you do and it will most likely be because of other people doing it that way first.
Saturday, May 5, 2012
Rejection Occurs to Much
In the story Frankenstein the monster is rejected by everyone because of what he looks like. This type of stuff happens all over the world every day, yes I am talking about rejection. There are many different names for it, some call it bullying, some just call it life. No matter what you call it it happens to everyone. You can be the person being rejected or rejecting someone.
One example of rejection is when some one just wants to be part of a group this could be anyone. It could be at a new job when you are forty or your first day of school when you are five. People can just be mean for the most part, some do it because they don't think it will effect anyone and some because they are in front of a group of friends and want to look "cool". What most don't do is think of what it may do to effect that person.
That person someone might reject could have ended up being his or her best friend, but just because they thought his or her cloths were stupid looking or they had a bad haircut they will act childish. Most people even though they should, they don't look back on when they were rejected. If they were to look back they might think I should include this kid because I remember how left out I felt, and how much I just wanted to be treated like I belonged. If everyone would do this rejection would become a less occurring thing.
One example of rejection is when some one just wants to be part of a group this could be anyone. It could be at a new job when you are forty or your first day of school when you are five. People can just be mean for the most part, some do it because they don't think it will effect anyone and some because they are in front of a group of friends and want to look "cool". What most don't do is think of what it may do to effect that person.
That person someone might reject could have ended up being his or her best friend, but just because they thought his or her cloths were stupid looking or they had a bad haircut they will act childish. Most people even though they should, they don't look back on when they were rejected. If they were to look back they might think I should include this kid because I remember how left out I felt, and how much I just wanted to be treated like I belonged. If everyone would do this rejection would become a less occurring thing.
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